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Sudden anxiety taking over? Try these 6 expert-approved techniques to soothe a panic attack in just a few minutes.
Racing heart, sweaty palms, feeling like you can’t breathe, afraid you’re dying or losing your mind…
If you’ve ever had a panic attack, you know how overwhelming it can be.
According to INSERM, about 15% of people in France experience at least one in their lifetime. It’s not just stress — it’s a sudden, intense wave of anxiety that hits out of nowhere.
It feels like your body hits the emergency button even though there’s no real danger. Physically, you're safe — but your brain doesn’t get the memo.
👉 The good news? Psychologists who specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) have developed simple and effective tools to calm panic attacks fast.
Start by talking to yourself gently and calmly:
“What I’m feeling is intense, but it’s not dangerous. This is a panic attack. It will pass.”
🧠 When your emotional brain (the limbic system) kicks into high gear, you can bring in your thinking brain (the prefrontal cortex) by repeating clear, rational thoughts.
Example:
“I’m not dying. My body is reacting to sudden stress. I’ve been through this before — and I made it through.”
CBT experts often recommend breathing exercises to counter hyperventilation — a common symptom during panic attacks.
Try the 3-6-5 method:
This helps balance the oxygen and carbon dioxide levels in your blood, which calms your nervous system.
Panic often comes from imagining the worst — like fainting or having a heart attack.
To get out of your head, use your 5 senses:
This powerful mindfulness trick helps snap your brain out of panic mode and back into the here and now.
During a panic attack, you might freeze or feel restless. Either way, movement can help release that tension. Try:
➡️ Moving helps shift focus away from anxious thoughts and shows your body it’s safe and in control.
Journaling is a CBT-backed way to process strong emotions.
Write out what you're experiencing:
Then write a more neutral version:
💡 These rephrased thoughts help your brain get back on track and regain perspective.
A mental escape can interrupt panic signals.
Close your eyes and imagine somewhere you feel totally safe — like a quiet beach, a forest path, or your bed under a warm blanket.
Bring in the details:
This technique, called “guided imagery,” is often used in therapy to create a sense of peace during emotional storms.
You might feel wiped out, even embarrassed — but there’s nothing wrong with you.
Take time to rest, hydrate, and jot down any early warning signs you noticed. That way, you’ll be more prepared next time.
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