Learning to Trust Others: Practical Tools and Mental Health Benefits

Do you often doubt your abilities at work? Learn why and how to overcome the fear of not being good enough.
Have you ever felt like you’re not good enough at your job? That someone will “find out” you’re not as competent as you seem? If so, you’re far from alone.
According to the International Journal of Behavioral Science, nearly 70% of working professionals in Western countries have experienced impostor syndrome at least once in their careers. That feeling of not being legitimate or deserving of success can deeply affect motivation, self-confidence, and mental well-being.
The good news? This fear can be understood, addressed—and overcome 💪
The fear of not being good enough often stems from cognitive distortions—mental filters that twist how we perceive ourselves. We tend to overestimate others and underestimate ourselves. This is known in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as self-devaluation.
Some common triggers include:
Constant self-doubt leads to stress, mental overload, and even burnout. It makes us hesitate to speak up, ask for help, or delegate—eventually harming our career growth and eroding self-esteem.
Worse, it can lead to feelings of isolation and a loss of purpose in the workplace.
Fortunately, CBT offers effective techniques to help tackle this fear. Here are three simple but powerful strategies 👇
Every day, jot down 2–3 small wins: a well-handled meeting, a clear email, a finished task. Over time, you’ll train your brain to recognize achievements instead of shortcomings.
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Instead of taking thoughts like “I’m not competent” as fact, treat them as hypotheses to investigate.
Ask yourself:
By doing this, you’ll defuse toxic thoughts and replace them with more balanced ones.
CBT encourages what’s called “error tolerance.” One unusual but effective exercise is to intentionally make a small, harmless mistake—like repeating a slide in a presentation. You’ll realize nobody really cares, and that being imperfect is perfectly okay.
At MindDay, we believe everyone deserves to feel confident and capable at work. That’s why we’ve developed programs to boost self-esteem, tackle impostor syndrome, and reduce work-related anxiety.
Our method, based on CBT, fits easily into your daily life with 5-minute routines, guided self-therapy, journaling tools, and psychological tests to track your growth.
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